What is a death doula?

As a death doula, I have done it all.

I have provided therapeutic touch and massage to actively dying clients.

I have planned funerals and written eulogies.

I have mediated difficult family conversations.

I have advocated for my clients in long-term-care facilities and hospitals when I saw their care was not adequate, or that something wasn’t right.

I have changed, bathed, and fed my clients.

I have helped them get to the bathroom and tucked them back into bed.

I have done puzzles, read poetry, sang songs, explored family photo albums, and asked good questions to allow my clients to reminisce and find closure.

I have prayed with clients, held their hand, and dried their tears.

I am proud to say that in some cases, I even became a part of their family.

I have been blessed to be in the room when a beloved client took her last breath, and spoke at her memorial!

My heart is open to it all.

Whatever you or your loved one needs as death draws close - I am here for you!